16th May, 2010

Comments in regards to the “German stare”

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phuturetents said:

about the staring: I’m an American currently studying in Marburg, Germany and I think that person meant more so that Germans hold eye-contact longer than Americans do, I wouldn’t call it “staring.” And it has been recorded as an actual “phenomenon” although it’s really just a cultural norm.

You can read about it in the book Unraveling An Enigma by Greg Nees, I just did a presentation for this in my psychology course here at the uni :]

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deutschitforme said:

It really is true that staring is not strange for Germans. I noticed this too. Americans are like…”why is that person staring at me?…is that normal here?”

If I stare at them, it is normal for me to look away the second that they notice it. If you don’t look away, it doesn’t bother them though.

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nnnoir said:

@entropymorphoses: Hi I was born and raised in Germany, but I am African and I know exactly what you’re talking about! :) I’ve had many family/friends from Africa and the US who cam to visit us and they all said the same: Germans like to stare! I found it really hilarious and interesting, because I had never noticed it before, but then I must be used to it. All I can say is that I have experiened that people from Germany and the UK (much lesser than germans, though) tend to stare, it’s in the culture and it’s not meant to offend. Americans are usually very offended. I remember my aunt really felt bad and was like, why are they all looking at me. But that’s just how it is. Also, when talking to Germans, you always look at each other, continiously. If you don’t you’re considered unattentive, maybe thinking of something else. In the UK and US you don’t keep eye-contact during a conversation, it’s considered rude. As is the part of Africa I originate from, we don’t look at each other directly at all when talking!
I think this is a very interesting topic. Behaviour and Such in different countries.

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